Tips to change your love life
‘Falling in love’ is a phase where one could be the happiest ever. To be on cloud number nine and get that extra over-the-top attention is something no human ever refrained from. While it’s easy to fall for someone, this lovey dovey phase is like a tequila shot. Gives you a high which unfortunately doesn’t last a lifetime! Want to save the high and do yourself a favour by ‘staying’ in love with your special one? We have tips which you do not want to miss if you want to change your love life and add some sparkle! So read on
1. Build the Respect and Appreciate
In this world full of negative criticism and judgemental badasses, looking out for the positive in your partner and appreciating ongoing improvements on daily basis is genuinely encouraging. Not only would it make your lover feel encouraged, but would also uplift the fact that you respect him or her for efforts put into life tasks.
2. Communicate Communicate Communicate!
Don’t fall pretty to the cons of the urban trap of too-busy-to-update. Do you remember seeing yours (or someone else’s) grandparents have those catching up sessions? Wasn’t that really cute? While technology has space rocketed, there are no excuses on not letting your partner know what you are up to. It could be something as simple as how you spent your day even. So calm it, grab your partner and your favourite cuppa and get talking!
3. Find that Common Favourite Activity
Every couple has that one special activity they love doing together. Cooking together, watching sports or the favourite series together, working out in the same space, an unhoarding session together or simply going on long walks or musical drives! Get creative, pick your favorite activity and make sure you do a lot more of it, a lot more frequently. It shall add some zest in your life and then you could thank us!
4. Plan a Suprise Date
Busy with work, well blended into routine. Aren’t we? To keep the lamp of your romance burning, all you need to do is put in that little extra effort. Plan a suprise date night on an unexpected day or simply whip up a good candle light dinner for your special one. If this sounds complicated, how about a quick coffee date where you don’t miss out on saying that one sweet thing he/she wants to hear the most?
5. Fire up those love making sessions
Mundane is boring for one and all but hey, we understand that it’s quick and easy in your busy days too! By now you know your partner’s sweet spots for sure. Break ‘quick and easy’ and put in some ‘extra’. Looking forward to use that new condom launched in the market, gifting him/her that special fragrance or lingerie for the upcoming night to texting your lover about the new position you want to try. This could surely add fuel to your warm fire eh.
6. Refreshing Get Away
When life gets stressful, it could add to one’s poor health not just physically, but also mentally. Planning your annual long vacation needs a lot of time, money and energy we agree. But how about those short staycations and weekend get aways together? Feel rejuvenated with this quick break after having some quality time spent with your lover.
7. The Thank You Hug
A small thank you for even the little things done by your special one can go a long mile. Don’t forget to gratitude kiss him/her off and on. A warm hug of acknowledgement makes toughest hearts melt indeed!
Hope you enjoyed reading the tips and tricks we dished out on how to ‘stay in love’. Bye bye with wishes that you have the most sizzling love life ever!