When young parents get talking about revamping their sex lives!
We were recently catching up with a group of friends over the weekend, all of about the same age group, raising a kid or a few (mostly toddlers). And what a fun get together it was ! Parenting can really get you go like Pheeewww by the end of the day. And so we started talking in lines of the challenges that we were all commonly facing through this phase.
A hot topic of discussion over some cool pints of beer, there was a realization(s) that mid age crisis has hit us hard, even though we consider ourselves to be really fit individuals in all ways. The most common complain that every couple had was of having their sex life fly out of the window. It was actually a funny scene to have the couples stare at each other in utter dismay while this topic was brewing!
The second half we finally decided to come up with solutions. Naughty and raunchy it sounds but we collected some great ideas. Read on for some really creative and fun daily dose of small little things that you could do to re-spark the flame and get your sex life burning wild and bright.
To begin with, make super sure that you have a perfect setup for securing privacy and alone time with your better half. It is very tempting to put the kids to sleep in your own room, in between the two of you and stay glued to them 24 by 7. Mindfully creating time is the key it sounds like!
Sexting- a trend we left behind to the college days! Sexting about that wacko position that you want to try out or the new launched sex gadget you want to bring in or even something as simple as reminding your partner that tonight is going to be ‘the’ night is good enough to warm it up for you. That a wild text in the middle of the day could have you look forward and get you thinking already!
A spa at home is another wonderful idea that we co-created. Make sure that you are well stocked with all possible spa accessories to relax and make home a peaceful place. Stress being the primary reason why people lose their libido, tackling the issue creatively should be an united task. Lighting a scented candle or aromatherapy diffusers, a quick massage to each other, good calming music or a peaceful cuddle actually lead you into wanting to do more!
Also, multitasking can bring and some irritation into our daily lives and in turn, it can have asked treating our better half as a punching bag. If you really plan to heat of your sex life, being nice to each other is obviously a prerequisite. Close unsettled arguments and avoid casual snapping if you want to get cozy and going!
Few of our friends also swear by going on dates leaving behind kids at home, once a fortnight at least. We would not have the hearts to go out dining or have outdoor picnic without our little munchkins though, the rest of the “solutions” mentioned out sound pretty interesting and do-able to get the sizzling nights back into our lives! Isn’t it!?
