We figured how Online Dating is a great bet to look at!
Online dating is something many adults just look past by… It is more of a thing with millennials. While we were trying to know the reasons why, we found out that it holds an image, totally opposite of what it actually is!
Online dating is actually a lot like normal dating. Or what we call as “classical” dating. You meet a person with no expectations, get to know him or her deeper and find out if there are any commonality. If you feel a spark and like the vibes, you continue else you are totally free to get ghosting. The false identity that comes as a perk of online presence can be a blessing in disguise when it comes to opening up and talking of anything and everything under the sun. There is no holding back of thoughts and that can be a very enriching thing if you have someone who is willing to actually ‘listen’ to you and talks to you because he or she likes you the way you are!
Talking of choices on whom you want to befriend- There is a huge big ocean of people online, it is rightly said to be a ‘networking’ platform- so your choices are so wide! You can end up talking to different folks from different strokes and you eventually might just end up finding ‘the’ one and if that is not your motto, you may end up finding a friend or a date who has vibes insanely in match with yours.
Also, there are many people who may not be introverts as such but are not very comfortable with talking to strangers in person. It is a boon for such a lot plus it surely makes it very easy to find partners for introverts as well, doubtlessly right! It’s a comfortable bet for people to know the real side of you especially if you hate confrontations. It’s very easy to display the real personality online. As easy as it is to display the fate personality we must say!
We also figured that online dating apps can be major time savers. Imagine getting to know all the basic things about a person by just browsing through his or her profile and know whether to make it or break it. Plus when you actually start talking to the selected one, you may only end up seeing the dead end in a session or two.
Online dating also usually doesn’t mean one is finding a boyfriend, girlfriend or just a sexfriend. Sometimes intentions can be deeper and a lot more than no commitments. There are hoards of real life stories where people have met online and then turned into life partners deciding to grow old with! Well, we believe that life is uncertain and anything can happen anytime. Just imagine meeting the one who would end up making a big difference to your life!
At the same time there are also a lot of cons that if one is careful about, can be easily tackled. In the ocean of people you can definitely find some insane ones too . One major concern about the online dating sites are of fake profiles. Someone having to upload a fake picture of himself or herself due to no confidence to someone having a total criminal mind set, the magnitude of the situation is huge indeed. Using fake images of someone else to damage his or her image or simply due to a jealousy or a revengeful attitude was one of the biggest issues that the social networking sites had to deal with in 2007, 2008. Only post that, the websites started coming up with strict security protocols and measures to authenticate the persons genuine presence.
Lack of eye contact and body language being one of the major ways of gauging someone’s nature and personality type has also been another major concern. Do now a days the trend of video calling has picked up for people to be able to see each other but it has its own set of inconveniences again which is why it is not used as often as it should be.
Any which ways, if you are single and ready to mingle, you can definitely consider online dating as an option for you but with a little alarm kept handy in your mind. Be vigilant and have that alarm blowing if you sense anything fishy but if you are lucky and find the right side of people it can definitely prove to be life changing for sure!
