How do you know that the mutual attraction is for real?

There are times when we meet new people from different walks of life. Most of the times it starts with a casual greeting and then lands up to be just another acquaintance, after which there are only Hi!, Hello and Byes! We have all had a friend who introduces us to his or her best friend thinking it would lead into a close bonding and a group but in reality it just ends up into a dinner in an attempt of bonding and then fades out to be an acquaintance again! Have you ever been there? Sure we all have.

On very rare instances, where we actually end up feeling connected and bond with the new people we meet. There are very rare chances that it would blossom into a relationship like friendship or more. Have you recently met someone whom you have felt instant attraction towards and have felt the need or wish of wanting to spend more time together? You might just end up having a best friend in that person. But if you are single and are looking for something more than just friendship then this attraction can be life changing. Now the question is that does the opposite person feel the same for you? How do you know if the attraction is mutual? How do you know that you can actually go ahead and take a lead to take the casual conversation ahead? There are several stages to know if there is a solid attraction. Read on for some signs and signals that you should look for to understand if the opposite person feels is same for you and if the attraction is mutual!

• • Stage 1: It starts with the text messages (99% of the times) – A casual hello on the text message after having met him or her for the first time leading to ‘tell me something more about yourself’ and then talking about various fundas of life through the day or quite often than you can imagine. This can have you into creating a rapport and getting to know each other better. If it all feels right then you would feel the need to meet and hang around often! You will realize that the inquisitiveness levels are skyrocketing high and you want to know just about everything to do with each other.

  • Stage 2: This is a bigger phase. After crossing the stage 1 if you keep looking forward to catch up on each other or feel like your day is incomplete without talking to each other then definitely is nothing but a lot of attraction brewing. Initially, would want to hang around in groups on tag your friend, cousin or sibling along. During that time, look for how often do you make an eye contact. If it is a lot more than friendship then eye contact is a definitive sign that the person is interested in you. While a long pause eye contact with a stranger creeps you out, it’s totally opposite with the one you are fond of! After crossing the first stage, it is a sign to note. If there are long lasting eye contacts then that only means that the person you Iike, likes you back.

  • Stage 3: Details Details Details! After a couple of hanging around sessions, you start noticing how the opposite person pays a lot of attention to small little details to do with you. The way you talk, your pitch, the way you dress, your accessories and a lot more. This often leads to casual comments or even compliments. If it is nothing more than friendship then usually one tends to miss out on details. If it is a potential love interest, one would definitely pay a lot of attention to every gesture and every small little thing that is said or done. Just imagine noticing someone noticing you all the time! What fun it is. Would you call this casual friendship? We won’t !

  • Stage 4: This is the final signal that you have been looking out for. Just like long gazing eye contacts, people who have mutual attraction and love interest in each other definitely do not mind intruding each others physical space. That is a subconscious way of establishing a comfort level between the two of you. You would not want to maintain distance in fact proximity will be maintained! Sitting next to you or just leaning on you or brushing past you while trying to reach out on something, lovingly patting or even casually punching ..well, you have arrived we must say!

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Some are really good at expressing themselves and some cannot do it for nuts. But signs and signals like these are for everyone. Such specific behavioral patterns definitely do the talking!  Also, we would like to definitely conclude that this is the most amazing phase of any relationship where cheeks are blushing, eyes are talking and there is only a happy vibe in the air.