11 Sure Signs that will help you identify your true Soulmate
Most people grow up thinking that there is one person meant for them with whom they can marry and live happily ever after; all thanks to the classic romantic movies of Hollywood and other film industries in the world. The concept of a ‘Soulmate’ is different for different people. Although not everyone is lucky, some couples prove that it truly exists.
Soulmates complete each other, they support each other in the pursuit of their dreams, solving problems and help each other evolve into a better person, a better soul. So it’s natural for anyone to wish for a soulmate in their life. A majority of people surely might be encountering their true soulmate, but at different points in their life; for some, it can be during childhood, in school, and for others, it can also be after the age of 60!
Whenever it is, but the important point is people should identify and prepare to receive their soulmate in their life. Following are the points to help you determine whether a particular person is ‘The One’ for you or not:
Believing in the concept: well, if you don’t believe in the idea of a soulmate, you won’t get one, even if your soulmate has identified you and courting you. You have to be open-minded, believe that there is truly someone made for you, and be open to all possibilities in life. Our conviction creates reality for us. Thus, until you find ‘The One’, be on the lookout and keep believing.
First meeting doesn’t feel like that: This happens with most of the soulmates when you meet or see them for the first time, there’s a feeling that you both have met before. You both feel an instant connection and click, you feel comfortable with each other.
Although it can also be the opposite for some soulmates. You may know each other for many years, but only after a certain time that there is a strong unexplained feeling of love and attraction, a flash of recognition. Or you both met in childhood, and years later met again, with that soulmate feeling! Thus, there are many ways when you both can meet and realize, but you won’t get a forewarning though.
Trusting your gut feelings: It can happen that your soulmate is in front of you but you refuse to recognize them. You have to notice the difference in your feelings when you meet them and when you meet others. You have to trust your instincts, your gut feeling; they are right at such occasions.
The attraction goes beyond logic: Everyone has an ideal person in their mind, a checklist for their life partner, but that’s not compulsory for that person to turn out to be your true soulmate. When you meet your soulmate, you fall for them even if they don’t check your ideal list. You don’t understand the logic and science here; it’s as though some cosmic imaginary force is at play. You will also not try to change them to fit into your ideal person, you will love their flaws.
The Cosmic connection: There will be such a deep spiritual connection between you two that many things happen only with them; for e.g. they complete your sentences, they know exactly what you think, at what time and situations. You both may converse telepathically too! You will feel uneasy when something is not right with your soulmate. This profound connection is a sure sign of soulmates which shouldn’t be ignored at all.
Without that person, life feels nothing for you: When they are not around you, there’s uneasiness, you feel worried and restless. Life feels incomplete for you. At such times, you truly realize their importance in your life.
You both challenge each other: Your soulmate can bring out the hidden aspects of your personality. Besides appreciating your qualities, they can make you realize your potential, they will wholly support you in your dreams and career ambitions and challenge you to move out of your comfort zone. This brings out the best version of you and helps you grow as a person and soul.
Nothing can overcome the Love: A soulmate relationship will not always be happy and fight-free. Here too, you both will argue, have differences over things and opinions, financial difficulties, career issues and clashes, etc. But the situation never goes out of control or towards break-up/divorce. You both will equally fight for the relationship, and will never let ‘ego’ win. Nothing or no one can break your bond.
You complete each other perfectly: You both are the fill in the blanks of each other. Everyone has their strengths and weaknesses, they may be strong in something that you might be weak in. It’s the perfect harmony of yin and yang. Plus, you both may surely have the same beliefs and life goals. You feel happy, lively, content, and at peace in each other’s company. Besides being a soulmate, you will be everyone for each other, like a best friend, biggest fan, favorite person, teammate, etc.
You are truly ‘YOU’ in front of them: You don’t have any insecurities and you don’t need to pretend to be someone in front of them. You show your true self to each other, and often the side of yours that is usually hidden from the rest of the world. You both will share all your secrets, desires, deep and dark thoughts, etc. You both will love each other’s weird and mad self too.
Your chemistry with them is unique: There is an electrifying chemistry between you both whether it’s just while holding hands, or while having sex. It stays intact even after decades of relationship. You both will know exactly what you want at what time without telling. Even in old age, soulmates will feel the same love that they felt on their first day together. On days when you both will be thousands of kilometers apart, the chemistry, love, and longingness will remain.
“Soulmate” might be an exaggerated concept, but it is lovely to have one for yourself. There may be disagreements or fights, but overall life together with a soulmate is so perfect and happy that you won’t ask for anything or anyone else. You will be better off with your soulmate than spending your life with someone so less compatible that happy moments will become a rarity for you.
