Tips for Long distance relationships
Can you name a time in the relationship when both the partners shed tears for each other? It is when one of the partners has to leave for another city, where it won’t be easy for them to meet for a long time. This way, the relationship officially turns into a “Long Distance” one, something which most couples have to go through at some point in their relationship.
The Long Distance can be for a couple of weeks or even a few years, either way, you have to come up with strategies to keep the spark alive until it gets over. Here are tips that will keep the long distance only geographically but keep the hearts together:
Extensive use of Technology
We are always advised to have more person to person communications and ditching any virtual ones, but here you have to do exactly the opposite. Chat more often and do video calls at every opportunity. Update yourself on the happenings in their life via social media.
Showering Surprises
Occasionally, you can surprise your partner by sending gifts via post or ordering online direct at their address. You can buy their favorite thing or anything memorable to you both. If the Long distance is lasting for more than a few months, it is advised to pay a quick visit to them and spend some quality time together. You may also write vintage style love letters and send them to each other.
Trusting each other
Misunderstandings or miscommunications may happen easily at this point. The key will be to understand each other and have full faith in the relationship. Hear them out completely and constantly assure each other of your love. Speak directly and leave no room for any lies or doubts in your mind. Don’t do or say anything that will make your partner worried. Ensure their happiness as much as you can.
About physical satisfaction
This is one area of the relationship which gets affected the most and must not be neglected. Make Sexting compulsory and regularly. You may also do nude video sessions, pleasuring yourself while watching your partner in an aroused state is a thrill in its own right. It will also make you go all over each other the next time you meet.
See the Brighter side
Everything has a plus point to it, even if it’s only one, make the most of it. You can immerse yourself more in your hobbies and stave off any negative emotions like depressions arising because of the long distance. Enjoy your own space and “me time,” spend time meeting your friends, relatives, cousins, etc. Join a hobby class or do gym, meditation, yoga, but always keep yourself busy.
If Love is super strong from both sides, even the Long distance will not threaten the union. Remember, the distance will only make the hearts grow fonder, or will make you realize the seriousness of your relationship. You should learn to cross each hurdle in your relationship and emerge successful together.
