5 suprising reasons why he won’t commit to you

For an eligible bachelor to be commitment phobic is not a suprising fact of any sorts. No matter what generation you belong to , looking for security and commitment in the guy you dolt on is not a suprising fact either! A total contrasting quality for singletons of opposite sexes, this a problem that persists since forever.

So if your guy just wants to have fun , gets slurry and dicey when it comes to giving you a lifetime commitment, we know it can get really irritating bringing in self doubts but don’t worry and stress much. You aint the only one and there are deep rooted reasons so as to why he refrains from securing your soul! Top 5 reasons we picked from the plethora of ifs and buts… Read on!

1. He knows more than he should

Have you revealed your deepset secrets that must’ve gotten him judging you or your folks for? A financial scenario or family politics which you have grown up with but he won’t find it as normal? A minor health issue which he thinks can get grave inviting future issues ? Your wierd chemistry with some friends? Cultural/racial differences that he obviously can see? He may know more than necessary, thus having him hold back.

2. Workoholic career oriented maniac

The guy you have your hearts sold out for maybe an open or secret workoholic in nature.. for all you know. Extremely career oriented guys who need to cater to work issues first will never have you as a first priority. Commitment means serious relationship and serious relationships need time. He may simply not want to commit to giving away a chunk of his work time on regular basis!

3. Keeping his options open

Eligible bachelors need time to choose their better half considering factors which may not even fit into your understanding. Not just emotional and physical, they have a lot of other parameters to guage you on before they go ahead and find the one who would be the perfect family material ensuring the best fit into their lifestyle and family.

4. Different priorities tending to temporary flings

Guys in different phases of life have priorities wallpapered in their lives. Most of the guys live by checklist-for-the-day. When the checklist is too long, a  flexible fling is all one needs. Don’t be dumb to get into any sorts of emotional traps of such a checklist maniac. If u r crushing too hard , well, fling around and have all the fun to only be sure to go back home alone aft a couple of such fun sessions!

5. Personal issues and self confidence

Many a times it’s nothing to do with you! It’s some deep rooted issue with the guy himself. Lack of self confidence due to issues from the past, financial issues, lack of clarity w.r.t career or life priorities can lead him into not wanting to commit to you. In the end, a commitment affects two lives. Few guys are nice enough to not commit until they are sure they can genuinely take care!

There are many more reasons why a guy won’t commit to you and it can be unique to every individual. Hope the ones we penned down somewhere connects to your life situation. So, don’t fret much. Just breathe and say Que Sera Sera- whatever will be, will be!